Advice and Tips Column

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New Year Check-Ins

So with the New Year, many people will start to think about resolutions or goals for what they want to do in the next 365 days. While these can be beneficial to some, a lot of people drop the resolutions because they lack clear-cut goals or checkpoints to mark their progress along the way.

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Families and the Holidays

For many people, the holiday season is a great time to see family, travel, and share gifts. The same is true for many in the LGBTQ+ community, but for some, it can be very stressful.

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Your Relationship to Gender

This month we’re going to turn the focus a little bit, with the goal of getting cisgender people to self-reflect on the way they interact with their gender.

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A Loved One Just Came Out

So someone close to you – a family member, friend, or even a colleague just came out to you and told you about their LGBTQ identity. This could look like many different things; they could be coming out as gay, bisexual, or perhaps they are coming out as transgender or nonbinary. As always, the first thing is to take your time with understanding!

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Pronouns

Everyone uses pronouns all the time —  I, you , we,  this, she.

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Misgendering

It’s very likely that you know someone who is going through a gender journey, and part of that can include changing pronouns. Slip-ups can happen, people make mistakes, but it’ll mean a lot more to the person if you keep the following things in mind.

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Is Gender a Choice?

I have a transgender friend who complains about how it’s hard to be trans. I want to be a good friend, but I don’t understand why they choose to be transgender if it’s hard for them.

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I Don’t Crush on Everyone

When I came out to my parents as bisexual, they were supportive. (Yay!) However, now they keep assuming that I want to date all my friends. How do I get them to understand that being bisexual doesn’t mean I automatically like everyone?

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Married Bisexuals

I have a friend who says she's bisexual, but she just got engaged to the guy she's been dating for a couple years now. Does that mean she's decided she's straight?

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